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   Would You Trade Success for Fulfillment?

   Receive Money by Following Your Heart 

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   Do You Need a Job?  

   The Leading Question Again  

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Would Trade Success           Would Trade Success              ...

The Leading Question:

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Would You Trade 
Your Present Level of Success For Fulfillment?  

Most people respond to this question by asking, 
What's the difference?"   Well, let
's  find out.

   Success is accomplishing a goal.

l   Fulfillment is being internally satisfied with 
the result which was produced by achieving that goal.
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   Success can be measured in physical terms

l   Fulfillment cannot.

   Success is a job.

l   Fulfillment is a state of being

   Success is a result of doing.

l   Fulfillment is a result of being

   Success is external.

l   Fulfillment is internal.  

   Success is in the physical world of time and space.

l   Fulfillment is in the non-physical world of feeling and being -- 
the world of
no time and no space.   
It's in the world we call spirit.  

   The physical body experiences success.

l   The mind, the conscious self, experiences fulfillment.  

   Success is objective and impersonal.

l   Fulfillment is subjective, completely personal,  and everyone 
has to define what that means for him or her self.  

What is a success for one person is often a  failure to someone else.   For example,  in any endeavor, a beginner's measure of success is quite different from that of a seasoned professional.

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Happiness is an inside job:

Essentially, that means life is actually lived internally.   Everything in the outside world is simply something that inspires you to feel good or feel bad internally.   You can't  change most of your external world, but you certainly can change how you respond to your experiences in the world.  

Two excerpts from one of this author's  books will help to see this concept more clearly:   Receive Money by Following Your Heart   and  Do You Need a Job?

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***  We often accomplish a goal or manifest 
something we wanted only to find that the result
are significantly different from what we expected.

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Money by Following Your Heart

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The dialogue below is part of a discussion between a writer (Stoney) and a woman he has just met (Jazzbell).

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“So, Jazzbell, what is your capacity in the Foundation?”

“I search for the new, the unusual, for potentials-still-untapped and bring in projects for the foundation to finance, oversee, and support.”

“That sounds exciting — sounds like a great job.”

“It’s not a job.   I don’t have a job.”

“What do you mean?" I asked,  "You do get paid, don’t you?”

“The financial rewards that arrive as a result of my thoughts, words, and actions are quite profound; however, what I do is not a job.   I live a lifestyle that brings me great joy, and, along the way, an abundance of money flows into my life.”

I sit back in my seat.   Once again, in less than five minutes in her presence, I’m amazed by this woman.   “So how do you manage to do that?” I asked.

“I have been blessed with the ability to listen to my feelings and follow my heart.”

“Money by listening to your heart.   That doesn’t make any sense at all to me, but it does sound like the basis for a very interesting story.”

“Stoney, do you enjoy writing?”

"Yes, of course," I replied

“I’ll bet you're a good reporter.”

“I like to think so, and I’ll bet you are a good story to write about.   

She continued, "And I’ll also bet that the main reason you are a good reporter is that you love being a reporter.“

“True.”

“Then you already know about receiving money by listening to your heart.”

“I do?”

“Have you heard the statement,  ‘Do what you love doing and the money will follow’?’

I replied, “That sounds vaguely familiar.”

“Do you do what you love doing?  Do you write because you love writing?”

“Yes.”

“Does money come to you as a result of your stories?”

“Yes.”

“Then, like I just said, you already know about receiving money by listening to your heart.”

“Thank you.   I never thought of it like that before.”

She added, “Shall I share with you another example of money from the heart?”

“Yes, please do,” I  replied

Do you remember Mickey Mantle, the famous baseball player of the 1950’s?”

“Although he was way before my time, I've definitely heard of him.”

“Well, Mickey Mantle loved to play baseball so much that he’d get mad when it rained and he couldn’t play.   He didn’t work, and yet he was one of the most highly paid men of his day.   He played.   His game was baseball.   He did what he loved doing and was highly paid at the same time.   That’s receiving money by listening to your heart.” 

“Yeah,” I said, “but he was a rare exception.”

“Not true," she replied.   He was just one of the famous ones.   There are now and there always have been countless numbers of people who have lived their lives doing what they loved to do.   They are just not famous or even well known.   The difference between the dream-walkers and those who struggle through life is that the dream-walkers totally and completely commit themselves to manifesting their dreams.”

“The strugglers, on the other hand, dance to someone else’s tune, walk someone else’s talk, and obey someone else’s rules.   They've buried their own dreams in mental garbage.   They're controlled by beliefs like:  ‘It’s impossible.’  ‘It’s inevitable.’  ‘It can’t be any other way.’  'I'm not good enough to be, do, have what I want.'  ‘Life sucks and then you die.’ “

She continues, “When President John F. Kennedy made his now famous speech in 1961 about putting a man on the moon before the end of the decade, which of those two categories do you suppose he was in?”

I gave the obvious answer,  “He was a dream-walker of course.”

“And he was also an extremely  popular, very dynamic, and highly skilled as president of the United States.  

“So, Jazbell, you’re telling me that I, too, have a choice.   I can be a dream-walker or a garbage-shoveler. . .”

“Yes.   Everybody has that choice."

“So, how did you get to be one of the dream-walkers?” 

“Since I was a young child, I’ve had access to several marvelous mentors who’ve lovingly guided me along the way.”

"I'd like to hear more about your mentors."   

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End of Book Excerpt One 

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Do You Need a Job?

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This excerpt is also from one of R. Robin Cote's books:   The dialogue below is part of a discussion between a writer (Stoney) and a woman he finds himself falling in love with (Jazzbell).

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Jazbell asked, “Stoney, do you need to have a job?”

“I like to eat and have a bed to sleep in.”

“I didn’t ask about food or your bed.   I asked you if you needed to have a job.   If I gave you ten million dollars, would you need a job?”

“No, of course not,” I said.

“So a job is not your goal.   A job is a way to get money, a means to a desired end.”

“I get that.”

“Good.   Now, we’re on the right track.   If you had a perfect home for yourself — for example, suppose you owned a home like this one, and you had completely free and total access to go anywhere and do anything and have anything you could ever want, would you still need money?”

“No.”

“So money‘s not the goal either   Your desire is for the goods and services, and money is a means to access those goods and services.”

“Right.”

“And what do you get from those goods and services?   For example, what do you get from your bed?”

“Satisfaction, comfort, peace of mind,  security, pleasure.”

“Are those external things, or are they feelings and states of being?”

I replied, “They’re all feelings and states of being.”

“Good!" she said.   "You got it.  The ultimate goal of all human beings is to generate internally that state of being we call ‘feeling good.’   Unfortunately, we tend to confuse the external means with the internal goal.   We get lost in the physical world and lose our inner selves in the process.”

“Yes, I suppose I do that.   Doesn’t everyone?”

Jazzbell looked and me and smiled,  “Stoney, if everyone tied one hand behind his back, would you do the same?   What we're talking about is bringing consciousness into your life so that you can live by conscious  intention and not by accident or default.   I’m inviting you to stop living your life as a robot, to stop being a mechanical man.   I'm inviting you to wake up and become aware of how life works and what's really going on, to become aware that it’s pleasurable, internal feelings you're after, not the external trappings.   For example, why are you playing with my body?”

“Jazz. that's obvious!  Because I enjoy it.   You’re an incredibly beautiful woman and touching you makes me feel  good.” 

“And where is the ‘feel good’?”

“In me,” I replied.

“Do you see that I’m not the source of your feeling good?   You are the source of your feeling good.   I'm an external inspiration out of which you create, within yourself, your own internal feelings of pleasure.”

“True, but I never thought of it that way before.”

Jazzbell continued,  “Can you see now that your intention to manifest what we’re presently sharing comes from a desire to feel good and not from a desire for the external thing itself.   Feeling good is the goal, and our sexual sharing is a means to that end.“

“Yes, I see that.”

“Yet some people would find what we're sharing here today to be disgusting and revolting.   For them, the same external circumstances that are creating joy for us would create a totally different internal response for them.”

“Yes," I said, " but what has all this to do with our sexual sharing?”

“We contact our true nature at the feeling level, and orgasm is the ultimate ‘feel-good’ for any human being.   Believe it or not, orgasm is as close as most humans ever get to experiencing who they really are.   As sexual partners, we help each other open up and connect with the ecstasy of God.”

“So you really mean it when you say that sex is a spiritual experience?”

“It certainly is for me. “

I said to her, “Well, you know it isn’t for most people.”

“Yes, I’m aware of that,” she said.   “And, like everything else in the external world, sex is what we each make of it by our thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, words, and actions.  

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End of Book Two Excerpt Two 

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The Leading Question Again:

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Ok, now that you know the difference between success and fulfillment, let's focus on our opening question and approach it slightly differently.   Are you willing to shift the primary motivation for your behavior from physical things to inner fulfillment?   If your answer is "Yes," then answer these questions:

Inner Motivations:   What would inspire you to feel good?  What would inspire you to sit back comfortably and peacefully and just be in the present moment?   What would inspire you  to just be -- with absolutely no desire or impulse to change anything in that moment?   What would being completely at peace feel like?   What would contentment feel like?   How do you define happiness?   Where does love fit into this picture?   How do you feel about your physical body and the demands it makes upon you?   What feelings are generated when you think about the infinite source we call God?²   

Now, while remembering the connection between internal feelings and the external world, look out into the world and answer this question:   If you could be, do, have, express and/or experience anything in the entire world and you knew that your success was guaranteed, what would you do?

From Stumbling Blocks to Stepping Stones:

If you don't know the answer to these questions, you're not alone.   And don't feel bad about it either.   You're simply a product of what you have learned, accepted, and now believe.  Your past programmed you to experience yourself exactly as you are experiencing yourself right now today.   So if you don't yet know your dream, that's perfectly normal and that's perfectly OK.   Think of it as  just one more stumbling block that you can turn into a stepping stone.   Contact Us.²   We'll guide you through the process of finding some answers.

From a Dream to a Physical Experience:

And if you already have your dream, remember that dreams are only the first step.   Transforming them into a physical experience is the next step.   Without action, a dream is just a dream.   For example, thinking about making love is quite different from actually  experiencing all the incredibly blissful, tactile sensations of a lingam filled yoni.   So would you prefer to think about having sex or would you prefer to actually make love?   The same thing is true about your other dreams, visions,  and goals.   Just knowing what your dream is and doing nothing about it is the booby prize.

And Here's the Real Surprise:

You already have everything you need in order to be, do, have, express, or experience your dream.   You are like Michel Angelo's statue of David.  When asked how he could create such beauty from a block of stone, he said that before he started chiseling at that eighteen foot tall block of granite, David was already in there.    Michelangelo simply chipped away everything that wasn't David.  

So it is with you.  Everything you need is already inside you.   Your job is to chip away the things that stand between you as you perceive yourself right now and you as the manifestation of your dream.   I'm not talking about physical things.   The physical things are actually relatively easy to deal with.   I'm talking about your beliefs, your attitudes, your expectations, your thinking processes, and your self image.   That's what  stands between you and your dream.   They and they alone are the barrier between you and inner fulfillment. 

Unless you are one of the few who are actually living their bliss, what your life is right now is merely the symptoms of your misdirected thoughts and beliefs.   And you can begin changing that right now, today.   

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Robert Cote'

Theta Healing Practitioner

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